Author: Dr. Rajeshwari Yadav

Fever in Children: When to Watch, When to Worry

“Doctor, my child has a fever again. Should I be worried?”

This is perhaps one of the most frequent concerns I hear in my clinic — and I understand why. As a parent, it’s never easy to see your child feeling unwell, especially with a rising temperature. You may feel anxious, confused, and even helpless at times.

Let me assure you: fever is not your enemy. It’s often your child’s body doing exactly what it’s meant to — fighting off an infection.

Still, it’s important to know when a fever is harmless and when it’s signaling something that needs medical attention. So let’s talk about it, parent to parent, doctor to caregiver — in a way that makes sense and eases your worries.

What Exactly is a Fever?

A fever is when your body temperature rises above the normal range, generally above 100.4°F (38°C). For children, this usually means their immune system has detected a threat (a virus or bacteria), and is turning up the heat to make the body less friendly to that invader.

It’s a smart biological response.

But the part that scares most parents isn’t the number on the thermometer — it’s what it might mean or what it could turn into. So let’s break it down.

When Is Fever in Children Not a Major Concern?

Most fevers in children are due to viral infections — the common cold, flu, or seasonal viruses — and resolve within 2–3 days with rest, hydration, and some patience. If your child is still playing, eating (even a little), and behaving more or less normally, that’s a reassuring sign.

Fever itself is not an illness — it’s a symptom. Our job is to understand what’s behind the fever.

When Should You Call the Doctor?

You should consult your doctor if you notice any of the following:

  1. Infants under 3 months with fever More than 100.4°F (38°C)
  2. Fever lasting more than 3 days
  3. Very high fever (above 104°F/40°C)
  4. Breathing difficulties
  5. Stiff neck or severe headache
  6. Persistent vomiting or diarrhea
  7. Fever with rash
  8. Extreme sleepiness or confusion
  9. Pre-existing health conditions
  10. Fever after recent vaccination (if severe or prolonged)

How Can You Manage Fever at Home?

While waiting for a doctor’s advice or when the fever is manageable:

  • Hydrate well: water, soups, ORS
  • Keep the child cool and comfortable
  • Use fever-reducing medication only when necessary (as advised)
  • Avoid cold sponging or overdressing

 What About Homeopathy in Fever Management?

Now, this is a question many parents ask me:
“Can homeopathy help with fever?”

The answer is: yes, especially when it’s used with understanding, care, and evidence.

 What the Research Says:

  1. Pediatric Viral Fevers and URTIs:
    A well-designed randomized controlled trial published in an international medical journal showed that a specific homeopathic medicine (Influcid®) significantly reduced the duration and intensity of fever in children with upper respiratory infections, compared to a placebo. It also reduced the need for antipyretics, with no reported adverse effects.
  2. Dengue Fever Case Study:
    In an Indian case report (Paripex Journal), a patient with dengue fever recovered without hospitalization using individualized homeopathic treatment. The patient’s platelet count improved, and symptom relief was complete in 7 days. This showed the potential of homeopathy to support recovery without complications.
  3. Public Health Application in Dengue:
    A broader 2024 public health review (Int J Community Med Public Health) emphasized how homeopathic protocols helped prevent platelet drop and shock in dengue cases. When prescribed properly, the authors recommended its use during outbreaks due to low cost, zero side effects, and clinical effectiveness.

 What This Means for You as a Parent:

  • Homeopathy doesn’t fight the germ — it supports your child’s body to do it better.
  • When selected accurately (based on the child’s symptoms, nature, and illness pattern), it can:
    • Reduce fever duration and discomfort
    • Prevent complications like weakness or recurring infections
    • Avoid unnecessary medications or interventions
  • It’s safe, gentle, and well-tolerated, even in young children.

In fevers caused by viral infections (like the flu, dengue, or post-viral fatigue), homeopathy has been shown to:

  • Boost immune recovery
  • Regulate temperature response naturally
  • Support overall healing without suppressing symptoms unnaturally

Final Thoughts

Fever is a signal, not a sentence. As a parent, your awareness and calm response make all the difference.

Remember:

  • Not every fever needs a panic call.
  • Not every high temperature is dangerous.
  • But some situations do need urgent attention 

And if you’re ever unsure, it’s always okay to ask. You’re not alone in this.

Stay informed, stay calm, and keep loving your child with confidence.

Track Fever at Home — Download Your Printable

To make things easier for you during fever episodes, I’ve created a simple Fever Monitoring Sheet.

You can use it to:

Keep it handy — it helps you stay organized and gives your doctor a clear picture if needed.

 

School Refusal or Real Anxiety? A Parent’s Guide to What’s Really Going On

“Every morning, it breaks my heart…”

If you’re a parent walking away from school drop-off with a heavy heart because your child is still crying or clinging to you, let me begin by saying—I understand. You’re not alone. And what you’re seeing is not bad behaviour. It’s not stubbornness. It’s real emotional distress, often rooted in the developing brain, early experiences, and your child’s unique temperament.

Let’s walk through this together—scientifically, psychologically, and with deep empathy.

When Is Separation Anxiety a Concern?

It’s normal for young children, especially between 18 months and 5 years, to feel anxious when separated from their caregivers. But when this anxiety:

  • Lasts beyond 4–6 weeks of regular school attendance,
  • Begins to interfere with sleep, appetite, or learning,
  • Or escalates instead of settling down.
  • It may be more than just a “phase.”

Let’s look deeper at what could be causing this.

What Could Be Going On in Your Child’s Mind and Body?

1. Insecure Attachment Patterns

Children thrive on consistency. If caregiving has been unpredictable—due to frequent changes in caregivers, emotional unavailability, or inconsistent routines—children may struggle to feel safe when away from their secure base.

2. Highly Sensitive Temperament

Some children are biologically wired to feel more deeply. They’re more sensitive to noise, change, unfamiliar faces, or transitions. For these children, a school setting can feel emotionally overwhelming.

3. Parental Anxiety or Overprotection

Children mirror our emotional energy. They might internalize this fear if you’re anxious during drop-offs or hesitant to let them explore. Indian parenting styles often emphasise protection, but sometimes, unintentionally, this delays a child’s confidence to separate.

4. Past Stressful Experiences

Even one difficult experience—like an illness, hospitalisation, or abrupt change in the caregiving environment—can leave an emotional imprint. A child may begin to associate separation with distress or danger.

5. Lack of Gradual Exposure

Many children today enter preschool without prior exposure to playgroups, time with extended family, or moments away from their parents. The sudden shift to a structured environment can feel abrupt and scary.

6. Poor Emotional Regulation Skills

Your child’s brain is still under construction, especially the part that calms big emotions. Until this matures, they rely on external support (you!) to feel safe. Meltdowns often signal that they don’t yet have the internal tools to cope.

7. Delays in Language or Social Development

If a child struggles to express their needs or connect with peers, school may feel isolating. They may act out simply because they can’t say, “I feel scared,” or “I don’t know what’s going on.”

8. Separation Anxiety Disorder (SAD)

In about 4–5% of children, the distress is intense and clinically significant. These children experience persistent worry, physical symptoms, and a strong fear of harm. In such cases, a professional child psychologist can offer tremendous support.

What You Can Do — Practical, Heart-Based Solutions

 Stay Regulated Yourself

Children sense everything. Your calmness is the foundation for their calm. If you feel nervous, practice deep breathing or grounding techniques before drop-off.

 Build Predictable Routines

Children find safety in rhythm. Wake, dress, eat, and travel to school in the same order each day. Visual schedules with pictures also help children know what to expect.

 Say a Warm, Predictable Goodbye

Never sneak away. That breaks trust. Instead, use a consistent goodbye ritual (a hug, a phrase like “I’ll be back after tiffin”) to build reassurance.

 Use Transitional Comforts

A small object with your scent, a photo, or a love note tucked in their pocket can ease the gap between home and school.

 Stay in Touch With Teachers

Often, children settle within minutes of your leaving. Regular communication helps you stay informed and reduce your worry.

 Use Stories to Process Feelings

Books like The Kissing Hand or Indian stories about brave little animals help children feel understood and validated.

 Know When to Seek Help

Red flags include:

  • Daily meltdowns that don’t improve over time
  • Regressions like bedwetting or thumb-sucking
  • Frequent physical complaints like stomach aches
  • Silence or withdrawal when asked about school

When to Consider a Developmental Evaluation

If your child also:

  • Has trouble with speech or comprehension
  • Struggles to make eye contact
  • Can’t follow routines or transitions easily
  • Is unusually fearful of new spaces or people

 It might be time to consult a child development specialist. Early support can transform your child’s school journey.

How Homeopathy Can Help

In my clinical practice, I’ve seen many children benefit from homeopathy in ways that complement behavioral and emotional support:

  • Reduced nervousness and irritability
  • Improved sleep and appetite
  • Better adaptation to change

Homeopathy doesn’t suppress symptoms—it supports the child’s inner balance. Through constitutional treatment tailored to your child’s emotional and physical profile, we gently help their nervous system regulate.

To Every Loving Parent Reading This…

If your child cries at school drop-off, it’s not your fault. You haven’t “failed” at parenting. And your child isn’t misbehaving.

You’re both going through a growth journey of trust, independence, and love.

Give it time. Be consistent. Ask for help when needed.

And most importantly—remember, you’re not alone in this.

The Hidden Danger in Your Child’s Breakfast

If you’re a parent, your morning probably feels like a race — packing tiffins, managing work calls, and getting your little one dressed and fed before 9 a.m., in my case, it’s 6.30 am. In all that chaos, convenience often becomes a lifeline.

So we reach for what looks easy and promising — that colourful cereal box, a biscuit packet, a “health drink” that claims to make kids stronger and taller, or a fruit juice that says “no added sugar.”

But as a doctor and a fellow parent, I want to pause with you today and ask: Are these ready-made options nourishing your child, or are we just falling for smart packaging?

What Recent Research Tells Us

Let’s start with cereals, which are a popular choice for children. A study from the United States reviewed 1,200 new children’s cereals launched between 2010 and 2023. What they found was concerning:

  • Fat content increased by over 30 percent
  • Salt (sodium) increased by over 30 percent.
  • Sugar levels went up.
  • Meanwhile, fiber and protein, two nutrients children truly need, decreased

While this study was conducted in the U.S., the patterns hold in India too. Many Indian cereal brands follow the same formulation or are direct imports.

But It’s Not Just Cereals

In my clinic, I see that the average Indian child’s breakfast or snack routine often includes  a combination of:

  • Ready-to-eat cereals
  • Health drinks (like those added to milk)
  • Biscuits or cookies (often labelled “whole wheat” or “high fiber”)
  • Flavoured yoghurts
  • Packaged juices or milkshakes

Parents choose these because they feel safer, more nutritious, and easier to prepare. But when we look at the labels, here’s what we find:

What I See on Indian Food Labels

Let me share some real figures I’ve gathered from reading labels of popular products:

  • Cereals: 8 to 12 grams of sugar per serving, barely 1–2 grams of protein or fiber
  • Health drinks: Often 15 to 20 grams of sugar per serving (that’s about 4 to 5 teaspoons)
  • Biscuits: Marketed as “healthy,” but still packed with refined flour, palm oil, and added sugar
  • Juices or milkshakes: Even the “no added sugar” varieties may have natural sugar content equivalent to soft drinks

These numbers matter because, according to the Indian Academy of Pediatrics and ICMR, a child’s daily added sugar should not exceed 5 to 6 teaspoons (20 to 25 grams). A breakfast of cereal, a biscuit, and a health drink can easily cross this limit before your child even leaves for school.

Why This Is a Bigger Concern Than It Seems

I don’t want to scare you, but I do want to show you what I see:

  • Children are coming in with complaints of fatigue, mood swings, and poor concentration
  • Unexplained weight gain or digestive issues in children as young as 5
  • Blood tests showing borderline cholesterol or early insulin resistance
  • And worst of all, a generation growing up on sugar without even realising it

The food industry is clever — they use words like “fortified,” “energy,” “growth,” and “natural” to win your trust. But as a doctor, I always say: flip the pack and read the back. The truth is in the label.

So What Can We Do?

Here’s what I tell young parents in my clinic:

  1. Stop trusting front-label claims. “No maida,” “Made with milk,” “High protein” — these are often marketing tricks. Check the actual nutritional chart.
  2. Limit added sugar, especially in breakfast and snacks. Avoid cereals and drinks with more than 6 grams of sugar per serving.
  3. Rethink ‘health drinks’. If your child eats a balanced diet, they don’t need chocolate-flavoured powders. Simple milk, nuts, fruit, and home-cooked meals do a better job.
  4. Use biscuits as a rare treat, not a daily snack.
  5. Return to our roots. Our traditional Indian breakfasts are full of fiber, complex carbs, and natural protein, and cost a fraction of these packaged foods.

Here’s what I recommend to working parents who ask for something quick and realistic:

  • Poha with vegetables
  • Moong dal or besan chilla
  • Dalia with jaggery and dry fruits
  • Idlis with sambar
  • Roti roll with paneer or aloo sabzi
  • Whole wheat toast with nut butter and banana slices

These may not come in glossy boxes, but they build real health, not just hype.

My Final Thought

I know we all want the best for our children. And I know that sometimes, it feels like you don’t have time to cook or plan every meal perfectly. But let me remind you — you don’t have to be perfect. Just be aware.
Start small. Maybe swap the cereal three days a week. Or keep biscuits out of the snack box and replace them with fruit or nuts.

A few mindful steps today can protect your child from years of health struggles later.

Want a Ready-to-Use Weekly Breakfast Plan?
If you found this helpful and would like a simple, quick, and nutritious 7-day breakfast chart for your child, designed by me to fit into real Indian mornings, you can download it here. It’s packed with tasty ideas your child will love and your routine will welcome.

Click here to download Dr. Rajeshwari’s 7-Day Healthy Breakfast Plan

With warmth and care,
Dr. Rajeshwari Yadav

 

A Doctor’s Guide to Early Signs of Autism, ADHD & Learning Issues in Indian Kids

Apna bachpan yaad hai? Hamare parents ne kai baar bola hoga — “Bachpan mein sabhi aise hote hain, theek ho jaayega.” And honestly, unki baat mein pyaar toh tha, lekin aaj ke zamane mein sirf pyaar kaafi nahi hai — clarity bhi zaroori hai.

This question, “Is it just a phase?”, is one of the most common and important doubts I hear from parents. And if you’ve been wondering the same about your child, aap akelay nahi ho.

Let’s break it down together — one step at a time. Scientifically. Compassionately. No jargon. Just a real conversation that might bring you clarity and peace

Sabhi bachhe alag hote hain — True or just comfort talk?

Yes — it’s true that every child develops at their own pace. Some walk at 10 months, some at 15. Some speak by 1.5 years, others by 2. But there’s a range of normal. Science calls these developmental milestones — important markers to help us catch when a child might need extra support.

For example, if your child is:

    • Not making eye contact
    • Doesn’t respond to name by 12 months
    • Is not pointing or waving by 15 months
    • Hasn’t spoken meaningful words by 18–24 months
    • Repeats phrases but doesn’t use them to communicate
    • Can’t sit still for even a few minutes
    • Lines up toys, flaps hands, or avoids interaction

Yeh sirf “alag” hona nahi hai — yeh developmental red flags ho sakte hain. Not labels, not judgments — just signals. Aur jitni jaldi hum in par kaam karein, utna accha outcome hota hai.

It’s Not Just Behavior — It’s Brain Wiring

Neurodevelopmental disorders — like Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), Attention Deficit Hyperactivity Disorder (ADHD), and Learning Disabilities (LD) — parenting se nahi hote. Inka base hota hai brain wiring, genetics, sometimes early birth-related complications or environmental influences.

Indian parents often hear or think:

  • “Ladka hai, isliye late bol raha hai.”
  • “Ghar mein sab late bolte hain.”
  • “Shayad TV zyada dekh liya.”
  • “Main working mom hoon, meri wajah se toh nahi?”

Please remember: Blame doesn’t help. Awareness does. Yeh kisi ka fault nahi hai — but knowing early helps us give the child the right tools to thrive.

Why Waiting Can Hurt

Kai baar relatives ya even doctors bolte hain, “Waqt ke saath theek ho jaata hai.”

But science tells us something else. The brain is most adaptable — neuroplastic — in the first 5–6 years of life. After that, it’s like clay that begins to harden.

Studies show that children who receive support before the age of 3 show significantly better long-term outcomes in language, attention, behavior, and social development.

But what if I’m overthinking?

That’s a genuine fear many parents share — “Kahi main overreact toh nahi kar rahi?”

Think of it this way — agar aapke bacche ko blurred vision ho, aap uska eyesight test karwaate ho na? Evaluation means clarity. If everything’s fine, you get peace. If there’s a concern, you get time to act.

How Can Homeopathy Help — Scientifically?

Once we know what we’re dealing with, the next step is support.

This is where integrative care, including homeopathy, comes in. Now, I want to be very clear — homeopathy is not a replacement for therapies like speech, occupational therapy, or special education. But what it does offer is internal support to the child’s nervous system.

Homeopathic medicines are selected based on the child’s complete symptom picture — not just the diagnosis, but the child’s unique personality, fears, sleep, digestion, and emotional responses.

Emerging research shows that:

  • Homeopathy can help regulate sensory processing, especially in hypersensitive children.
  • It may help in improving sleep, anxiety, attention span, and emotional control — all crucial for learning.
  • Children receiving homeopathic care alongside therapies often show faster emotional settling and better engagement in sessions.

The goal is not to “cure” the child — the goal is to support their nervous system, reduce stress responses, improve adaptability, and gently assist development from the inside out.

Most importantly, homeopathy is safe, gentle, and non-toxic, making it ideal for growing brains and bodies.

What You Can Do Today

Start observing and noting patterns in your child over a few weeks.

Consult a developmental expert, not just a general pediatrician.

Don’t delay screening — tools like M-CHAT or Conners Scale are simple and available in many clinics.

Consider integrative support, including homeopathy, alongside therapy.

Trust yourself. You know your child best.

From Confusion to Clarity

I’ve seen non-verbal 3-year-olds become confident communicators.

I’ve seen children once lost in their own world slowly but surely begin to respond, connect, and even shine.

Kya yeh overnight hua? Nahi. Yeh hua because parents didn’t ignore their doubts — they acted on them.

So if you’re asking yourself, “Is this just a phase?” — it’s time to trust that instinct. Because early action is not fear — it’s faith in your child’s potential.

Let’s make decisions not out of panic, but out of informed compassion.

 

80% of Kids Fall Sick During Monsoon – Here’s What’s Really Happening

I often see a surge of anxious parents walking into my clinic the moment monsoon begins — and rightly so. This season, while beautiful, brings a predictable rise in infections among children, especially when school has just reopened. The body is already coping with heat, humidity, and fatigue, and this becomes an open invitation for microbes.

What’s most important in this season is early recognition of signs and symptoms, because timely support can prevent minor illnesses from becoming complicated.

Let’s understand this together, not with fear, but with clarity.

Why Children Fall Sick More During Monsoon

The monsoon environment — fluctuating temperatures, dampness, waterlogging, and contaminated food or water — creates an ideal setting for bacteria, viruses, and parasites to thrive. Children, due to their developing immune systems and close contact in schools, become more vulnerable.

Most Common Monsoon Illnesses in Children & Their Early Warning Signs

  1. Viral Fever & Flu-like Illnesses
    • Sudden onset of high-grade fever
    • Sore throat, runny nose, fatigue, body aches
    • Watery eyes, mild cough
    • Often confused with “normal” fever and missed early
  2. Gastroenteritis & Food/Water-borne Infections
    • Repeated vomiting, diarrhea (loose or mucousy stools)
    • Mild to severe dehydration
    • Loss of appetite, abdominal pain
    • Usually due to spoiled tiffin food, unclean hands, or unfiltered water
  3. Dengue & Malaria (Mosquito-borne)
    • High fever that doesn’t respond well to paracetamol
    • Rash, low platelet count (in dengue)
    • Chills, sweating cycles (in malaria)
    • Watch for excessive tiredness, bleeding gums, and red eyes
  4. Typhoid Fever
    • Persistent fever lasting more than 4-5 days
    • Weakness, loss of appetite, abdominal discomfort
    • Often mistaken for viral fever and mistreated
    • Common in children who consume unsafe food/water
  5. Skin Infections & Fungal Rashes
    • Itchy, red patches behind knees, in folds, groin
    • Fungal infections in damp socks, innerwear
    • Children may not report it until discomfort becomes unbearable
  6. Ear Infections
    • Complaints of ear pain or pulling the ear repeatedly
    • Fever, discharge, irritability in infants
    • It can worsen if water remains trapped after bathing or playing in the rain

What Parents Should NOT Ignore

  • Fever that lasts more than 2 days or comes with a rash
  • Reduced urine output or excessive sleepiness
  • Refusal to eat or sudden weight loss
  • Excessive crying in infants, especially with ear pain
  • Loose motions with signs of dehydration
  • Unexplained bruises, gum bleeding, or red patches (dengue alert)

These are not ‘just seasonal issues’ — they are your child’s body signaling that it needs help.

Myth Buster Section

  • It’s just a viral. Let’s wait it out.
    Not all fevers are benign. Early treatment reduces complications and prevents the spread in school settings.
  • Antibiotics are always needed.
    No. In most monsoon illnesses, viruses are the cause. Antibiotics do more harm when used without clinical need.
  • Street food is okay if hot.
    Not necessarily. Monsoon humidity encourages contamination even in cooked food, especially chutneys, curd, and pani-based items.

When Should You Seek Medical Advice?

If your child’s symptoms are not settling within 48 hours, or if they seem unusually tired, irritable, or off-balance, don’t wait. Medical evaluation at the right time can make all the difference, especially when it comes to dehydration, dengue, or typhoid-like illnesses.

What Can You Do Beyond Emergency Treatment? A Gentle, Evidence-Based Approach

It’s not just about managing acute symptoms. Monsoon illnesses in children, especially when they become frequent, are a clear sign that the immune system needs support.

This is where homeopathy offers parents a well-researched, safe, and natural treatment choice that goes beyond just “relief.”

Unlike chemical-based medicines, homeopathy works with the body’s own defense mechanisms. It has shown clinical effectiveness in bringing most acute ailments under control quickly and naturally, without adverse effects or risk of overmedication.

How Homeopathy Helps in Acute and Recurrent Illnesses

  • Speeds up recovery during fevers, colds, cough, stomach infections, or skin issues
  • Reduces recurrence, especially in children with frequent illness cycles
  • Boosts the immune system, helping your child stay stronger over time
  • Prevents antibiotic overuse, protecting the gut and long-term health
  • Is gentle, non-toxic, and safe for all age groups, even infants

If your child experiences recurrent cold, cough, fever, tonsillitis, diarrhea, or allergic flare-ups, homeopathy not only decreases the intensity and frequency of these illnesses, but also helps in building long-term immunity and vitality.

Final thought to Leave You With…

Monsoon doesn’t have to be a season of illness. It can be a time for joyful school returns, paper boats, hot soups, and family warmth — if we listen to our children’s bodies and act early.

At our clinic, we offer a specialised, child-focused, evidence-based homeopathic approach that helps manage acute diseases effectively, prevent relapses, and increase the body’s natural healing potential — without suppressing symptoms or burdening the body.

Whether you’re looking to manage an acute illness or want to help your child break the cycle of falling sick again and again, we invite you to explore a system of care that is gentle, scientific, and deeply effective.

Reach out to us to schedule a consultation — and take the first step toward restoring your child’s health the natural way.

 

Mumma, Papa… Why Isn’t He Talking Yet?

If you’re reading this, chances are… you’re concerned about your child.

Maybe your toddler isn’t talking like other children their age.
Maybe they avoid eye contact, don’t respond when you call their name, or spend hours lining up toys instead of playing pretend.
Maybe you’ve heard someone say, “It’s just a phase,” but your gut says otherwise.

As a parent, your instinct is powerful. And you’re right to listen to it.

At Caitanya, I’ve met countless mothers and fathers who noticed something early on — even if they couldn’t quite put it into words. What matters is: you noticed. That’s the beginning of everything.

So, what could these early signs mean?
Could it be a temporary delay — or is it pointing to something deeper?

Let’s understand one of the possibilities that many parents today are navigating with strength, awareness, and love — Autism Spectrum Disorder.

What Is Autism?

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a neurodevelopmental condition, which means it affects how a child’s brain grows and understands the world.

It’s not a disease, not something “caught,” and certainly not the parent’s fault.
It’s a difference in brain wiring — in how your child learns, plays, feels, and interacts.
And it can influence more than just speech or behavior. Many children with autism may also experience differences in:

  • Communication – speaking, using gestures, or understanding others
  • Social interaction – forming relationships or playing with peers
  • Sensory processing – how they respond to sounds, touch, smells, light
  • Emotional regulation – managing excitement, frustration, or routine changes
  • Physical health – sleep disturbances, digestive issues, food intolerances

Importantly, autism exists on a spectrum — every child presents differently.

 Early Signs Parents Should Watch For

You, as a parent, are often the first to observe something “different.” These signs can appear as early as infancy, or may become noticeable by 18–24 months.

 Baby and Toddler Signs

  • Doesn’t respond to name being called
  • Avoids eye contact
  • Doesn’t smile back or react to peekaboo
  • Rarely gestures (waving, pointing, showing objects)
  • Doesn’t babble, coo, or attempt early speech sounds
  • Doesn’t reach out to be picked up

 Social and Play Behaviors

  • Prefers to play alone; avoids peers
  • Doesn’t imitate actions (clapping, playing house, etc.)
  • Lines up toys or spins objects
  • Doesn’t show shared enjoyment (like pointing to something exciting)
  • May seem unaware of others’ emotions or expressions

 Sensory & Physical Cues

  • Overreacts to common sounds (pressure cooker, mixer)
  • Sensitive to clothes tags, water temperature, or bright lights
  • Repeats unusual behaviors like spinning, hand-flapping, or toe-walking
  • May chew on non-food items or repeat specific sounds
  • Either extremely active or unusually quiet

 Let’s Clear Some Myths

In Indian households, we often hear:

  • “Boys talk late, don’t worry.”
  • “He’s just naughty, not autistic.”
  • “She doesn’t speak because no one else talks to her at home.”

While these comments come from a good place, they can delay timely support.

Autism isn’t caused by parenting style, screen time, or vaccines.
It’s a biological-neurological condition — not a character flaw or a bad habit.

The earlier we identify it, the better the outcome.

 Why Early Intervention Matters

The first few years of life are when the brain is most adaptable — this is called neuroplasticity. During this time, the right support can help your child:

  • Build social understanding
  • Develop communication skills (verbal or non-verbal)
  • Learn daily routines and self-care
  • Reduce overwhelming behaviors
  • Strengthen emotional connection and bonding

We’ve seen beautiful transformations:
Children who once had no words begin to speak in full sentences.
Children who couldn’t bear touch now enjoy hugs and closeness.
Families once lost in confusion now feel hopeful, connected, and empowered.

 What’s Next?

If you’ve noticed any of the signs above, don’t panic.
But don’t wait either.

Every child develops differently — yes — but certain milestones are important signals. If your child seems to be missing multiple early milestones, it’s time to evaluate further.

A proper diagnosis doesn’t put a label on your child. It opens the door to support, therapy, and real change.

Our Approach at Caitanya Healing by Homeopathy

At Caitanya, we offer a specialized, system-based approach to support children with autism.

We combine:

  • Classical homeopathic treatment tailored to your child’s constitution
  • Evidence-based therapies to enhance sensory processing and focus
  • Parental coaching for home routines and behavior strategies
  • Nutritional guidance to support gut-brain health
  • And most importantly, compassionate, personalized care

Concerned About Autism? Let’s Evaluate, Not Assume.

If you’re unsure whether your child is showing signs of autism or simply facing a temporary delay, early assessment is key.

 Book a free one-on-one consultation with Dr. Rajeshwari:
👉 https://calendly.com/doctorsconsultation/free-one-to-one-consulting-dr-rajeshwari

We offer evidence-based guidance, developmental screening, and a clear path forward — without fear, stigma, or guesswork.

Early action isn’t about labeling — it’s about timely support and better outcomes.
Let’s take that step, together.

Speech Delay in Children: How Homeopathy Can Help

Is Your Child Facing Speech Delay? Let’s Talk About It

As a parent, it can be worrying if your child isn’t talking as expected. Maybe they’re not saying words yet, or they struggle to put sentences together. You might be wondering—why is this happening? What can you do to help? Let’s break it down in simple terms and explore how homeopathy can play a role in supporting your child’s speech development.

Prevalence of Speech Delay in India

Recent studies in India have reported varying prevalence rates of speech and language delays among children:-

  • A study conducted in North India found a prevalence of 6.2% among children .
  • Another study reported a prevalence of 7% in children aged 0-3 years .​
  • Research from South India indicated a prevalence of 13.7% in children up to six years of age .

What is Speech and Language Delay?

Speech and language delay happens when a child doesn’t start talking or understanding words at the expected age. It’s more common than you might think, affecting about 5-10% of preschool-aged children.

  • Speech is about making sounds and words clearly.
  • Language is about understanding and using words to communicate.

Some children may have difficulty with one or both, which can lead to frustration—for both them and you.

Why is My Child Facing a Speech Delay?

There isn’t just one reason. Many factors can influence speech development, such as:

  • Hearing problems: If your child struggles to hear clearly, learning to talk becomes harder.
  • Developmental delays: Some conditions, like autism or ADHD, can slow speech development.
  • Neurological conditions: The brain and nervous system play a big role in speech. Any delays in these areas can affect communication.
  • Muscle coordination issues: Speaking requires precise control of the lips, tongue, and jaw. Weakness or poor coordination can make speech difficult.
  • Limited social interaction: If a child doesn’t hear enough spoken language or isn’t encouraged to express themselves, their speech development may be slower.

How Can You Tell if Your Child Has a Speech Delay?

Every child develops at their own pace, but here are some common signs to watch for:

  • By 12 months: Not babbling or making simple sounds.
  • By 18 months: Not saying single words like “mama” or “dada.”
  • By 2 years: Not combining two words like “want toy.”
  • Difficulty understanding you or following simple instructions.
  • Struggling to express needs or getting frustrated when trying to communicate.
  • Unclear pronunciation that makes it hard for others to understand them.

If any of these sound familiar, don’t panic—there are ways to help!

What Can You Do to Help Your Child?

The good news is that speech delays can often be improved with the right approach. Some important steps include:

  • Encouraging conversation: Talk to your child often, even if they’re not talking back yet.
  • Reading together: This helps build vocabulary and understanding.
  • Play-based learning: Playing with toys, singing songs, and engaging in interactive games all support language development.
  • Speech therapy: A professional speech therapist can help guide your child’s speech growth.
  • Providing a supportive environment: Be patient and give your child plenty of opportunities to express themselves.

How Can Homeopathy Help?

Many parents turn to homeopathy as a natural way to support their child’s speech development. Homeopathy doesn’t just focus on the symptoms—it looks at the child as a whole, including their emotional well-being, behavior, and neurological development.

Here’s How Homeopathy Works:

  • Supports Brain and Nerve Function: Homeopathy works to balance the nervous system, helping the brain process speech more effectively.
  • Improves Muscle Coordination: Speech requires control of the tongue, lips, and jaw. Homeopathy can help improve muscle tone and coordination, making it easier for your child to form words.
  • Helps in Developmental Delays: If speech delay is linked to conditions like autism or ADHD, homeopathy supports overall cognitive and emotional development.
  • Reduces Anxiety and Frustration: Speech delays can be frustrating for children, leading to behavioral challenges. Homeopathy helps children feel calmer and more confident in expressing themselves.
  • Stimulates Natural Development: Instead of forcing speech, homeopathy gently encourages the body to develop speech skills at its own pace.

A Holistic Approach to Speech Development

No single solution works for every child, but combining homeopathy with speech therapy, a language-rich environment, and emotional support can make a real difference. Every child’s journey is unique, and progress may take time—but with the right approach, improvements can be seen.

Final Thoughts

If your child is facing speech delays, you’re not alone. Early intervention, a nurturing environment, and natural approaches like homeopathy can help them find their voice. If you’re considering homeopathy, consult with a qualified homeopath to find the best support for your child’s needs.

Remember, every child learns at their own pace. With patience, encouragement, and the right help, your child can develop strong communication skills and thrive.

 

Is It Autism? A Heart-to-Heart Conversation Every Parent Needs

A Conversation with Parents: Understanding Autism and How We Can Help

Imagine sitting in my clinic, discussing your concerns for your little one. That’s the tone I want to set here—just us, having an honest and heartfelt conversation about your child.

Parent: “Dr. Rajeshwari, I’ve been worried about my son. He’s three, but he doesn’t talk as much as other kids his age. He avoids eye contact and prefers playing alone. Could it be autism? I feel so lost.”

Dr. Rajeshwari: First, take a deep breath. It’s okay to feel worried—that just shows how deeply you care about your child. From what you’ve shared, it’s possible that your son might be showing signs of autism, but let’s not jump to conclusions yet. Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) can be reliably diagnosed as early as 18 months, but every child is unique, and developmental milestones can vary.

Let’s work together to understand your child better. The earlier we identify their needs, the sooner we can start supporting them in a way that works best for them.

Parent: “What are the early signs of autism? I’m not sure if I’ve been missing something.”

Dr. Rajeshwari: You’re not alone—many parents feel the same way. Some early signs include limited or no eye contact, delayed speech, repetitive behaviors like lining up toys, or intense focus on one activity. Some children might also seem overly sensitive to sounds or textures.

It’s important to remember that these signs don’t define your child—they’re just clues that can guide us to better understand how they experience the world.

Parent: “If my child is autistic, what can I do? Will they ever speak or connect with others?”

Dr. Rajeshwari: Every child’s journey is different. Some children may start speaking later, while others might use alternative ways to communicate. What’s most important is finding the right support for your child. Speech therapy, occupational therapy, and behavioral interventions can work wonders.

At Caitanya Clinic, we’ve seen how integrating homeopathy into this mix can make a significant difference. Homeopathy gently addresses core challenges like anxiety, sensory sensitivities, and even immune system imbalances. When paired with allied therapies, it helps children connect more deeply with the world around them.

Parent: “Homeopathy? How does that help? I’ve heard mixed opinions about it.”

Dr. Rajeshwari: That’s a great question. Homeopathy works at a deeper level, focusing on the unique needs of the child. For instance, it can help reduce hyperactivity, improve focus, and ease the anxiety many children on the spectrum experience.

But here’s what makes our approach at Caitanya Clinic special: we don’t rely on homeopathy alone. We combine it with therapies like speech and occupational therapy, creating a tailored plan for your child. This integrated approach has shown wonderful results in many of our cases.

 

Parent: “I’m still worried about the future. Will my child be able to lead a happy life?”

Dr. Rajeshwari: I understand your fears—they’re completely natural. And the answer is yes, your child can absolutely lead a fulfilling life. With the right guidance and support, children with autism can develop their strengths, learn new skills, and connect with the world in their own unique way.

At Caitanya Clinic, we don’t just focus on therapies—we also work with parents, guiding you to become your child’s greatest advocate and cheerleader. Together, we can create a nurturing environment where your child can thrive.

Parent: “It sounds like you’ve worked with many families like ours. What’s your experience been?”

Dr. Rajeshwari: Over the years, I’ve had the privilege of working with so many wonderful children and their families. Every case teaches me something new, and I’ve seen how an integrated approach can bring about real, positive changes.

Some children have started speaking their first words after months of therapy; others have developed better focus or learned to handle social situations more comfortably. These moments are what keep me passionate about what I do.

As a parent, you’re doing an incredible job by seeking answers and support. Let’s piece together your child’s puzzle, step by step. At Caitanya Clinic, our protocol is designed to meet your child’s unique needs, blending homeopathy with other therapies to achieve the best possible outcomes.

You’re not alone in this journey. I’m here to help, and together, we can create a path that allows your child to shine in their own beautiful way.

(If you’d like to explore this approach further, book a consultation at Caitanya Clinic. We are available online consulting & clinic consulting at Vasai in the suburbs of Mumbai  Let’s start this journey together.)

 

Understanding Why Autism Occurs: A Conversation from My Heart to Yours

Let’s start with a story. Imagine a parent, sitting in my clinic, their eyes filled with worry and guilt. They’re trying to find answers, to understand what they might have done wrong. “Doctor, did I cause this? Could I have done something differently?” These are questions I hear often. If you’re here reading this, you might be wondering the same thing. Let’s walk through this journey together, step by step.

Autism—A Multifaceted Puzzle

Autism is like a grand puzzle—one with many interlocking pieces. Science has come a long way in understanding these pieces, but there’s still much to uncover. What we do know is that autism doesn’t have a single cause. Instead, it’s the result of a complex interplay of genetic, environmental, and developmental factors.

  1. Genetic Factors: A Family Thread

You might have heard that autism runs in families. That’s true to an extent. Research shows that certain genes increase the likelihood of autism. However, it’s not about a single ‘bad gene.’ It’s like a symphony of multiple genes working together in ways we’re still learning to understand.

For example, conditions like Fragile X Syndrome or Rett Syndrome are linked to genetic changes and sometimes include autism-like traits. Even identical twins don’t always both have autism, which means that genes are only part of the story. The environment also plays a role.

  1. Environmental Factors: What Surrounds Us Matters

During pregnancy, a mother’s health and surroundings can influence a baby’s development. Infections, certain medications, toxins like pesticides, or even complications during childbirth may subtly affect the brain’s wiring. These aren’t things anyone can predict or control entirely, so please, do not blame yourself.

  1. Brain Development: A Unique Wiring

Imagine a child’s brain as a beautiful, intricate web of connections. In autism, some of these connections may form differently, especially in areas handling communication, social interaction, or sensory processing. This doesn’t mean something is “wrong” with the brain—it’s just wired in a unique way.

  1. Immune System and Other Factors

Emerging research suggests that the immune system might also play a role. Inflammation during pregnancy or unusual immune responses could potentially influence brain development. Additionally, factors like advanced parental age or maternal stress have been studied for their connection to autism.

The Role of Vaccines: Let’s Address the Elephant in the Room

I know some of you might have heard about a possible link between vaccines and autism, particularly the MMR vaccine. Let me be clear: extensive research has consistently shown no credible evidence connecting vaccines to autism. While there have been observational studies suggesting a possible role of vaccination in regressive autism—where a child seems to develop normally until around 16-18 months before showing autistic traits. If you have concerns or doubts, please don’t hesitate to talk to your doctor. We’re here to provide you with accurate, evidence-based information and support.

Is This My Fault? Absolutely Not!

Let me say this as clearly as I can: you did not cause your child’s autism. As parents, we naturally look for answers, but the truth is, autism arises from factors largely beyond anyone’s control. Life’s circumstances, our environment, and our genetic makeup are not things we can ‘fix’ or change. You’ve done nothing wrong.

Why Doesn’t Autism Affect Every Child?

If these factors are universal, why doesn’t every child develop autism? The answer lies in genetic susceptibility. Some children may have a genetic predisposition, while others are less affected by the same environmental factors. Think of it like seeds planted in different types of soil. The soil—or the environment—affects how the seed grows.

Finding Your Path Forward

Now that we’ve explored these layers, let’s shift focus. Your child’s autism is not your fault, but your response to it can shape their journey. Early intervention, therapy, and a supportive environment can make a world of difference. Focus on what you can control—loving your child, celebrating their unique strengths, and seeking help when needed.

Together, We’re Stronger

If you’re feeling overwhelmed, know that you’re not alone. Many parents have walked this path, and there’s a community of professionals and families ready to support you. Autism may be a puzzle, but together, we can help piece it together.

Remember, the most important thing your child needs is your love and understanding. And that’s something you’ve already given in abundance.

At Caitanya Clinic, we understand that navigating autism can feel overwhelming, but you don’t have to do it alone. We’ve designed a comprehensive approach tailored to support children with autism and their families. From homeopathic treatments that address root causes to personalized guidance on lifestyle, therapy, and holistic care, we’re here to help every step of the way.

If you’re looking for compassionate, expert care to make a difference in your child’s journey, reach out to us. Call us today at the clinic to schedule a consultation. Together, let’s build a brighter future for your child.

With care and compassion,

Dr. Rajeshwari Yadav

 

 

Is Your Child Struggling to Grasp the Value of Money?

As parents of children with special needs, one of the most critical life skills we can teach them is understanding the value of money. It’s easy to assume that lessons about rupees, coins, and prices are covered in school, but for many children with developmental challenges, such as those on the autism spectrum, grasping the practical value of money often requires more personalized and hands-on learning.

But how can we take this seemingly abstract concept and turn it into something meaningful for such children? Let’s dive into how we can make the lessons of earning, spending, and saving money real and empowering for them.

Starting with a Simple Concept: “Does Money Grow on Trees?”

Let’s start with a fun question for your child: Does money grow on trees? This can be a fantastic way to open up a conversation about where money really comes from. In our culture, there’s a phrase that’s often used, “Paise ped par nahi ugte” (Money doesn’t grow on trees), which drives home the point that money is earned.

Here’s a simple exercise: Take your child to a plant nursery and ask them to find a tree that grows money. When they give you a confused look, you can explain, “Just like plants need time and effort to grow, money comes from hard work.” This can then lead to a discussion about how you (as their parents) go to work, just like they go to school, and that’s how you earn money to buy the things you need.

It’s important to explain this in the context of their daily lives. For example, you can tell them, “We earn money to buy your books for school, your favorite snacks, and the clothes we wear.” This simple analogy helps them connect the idea of work to money in a way they can understand.

Teaching Through Action: Earning Money with Chores

Now that your child understands that money comes from work, it’s time to make this concept more hands-on. One of the best ways to help your child understand the value of money is to set up a simple system of household chores where they can earn small amounts of money.

For example:

  • ₹10 for watering the plants
  • ₹20 for helping set the dinner table
  • ₹50 for cleaning their room

By associating tasks with specific amounts of money, your child will begin to understand that not all jobs are the same—some take more effort and are therefore rewarded with more money. This system also helps them learn that money has to be earned through responsibility, time, and hard work.

You can even set up a small “bank” at home, where they can deposit their earnings in a box or jar. Encourage them to keep track of their “earnings” in a notebook, which will reinforce their understanding of savings and the rewards of being patient.

Needs vs. Wants: Prioritizing Purchases

Once your child begins earning money, it’s important to help them differentiate between needs and wants. This distinction is crucial to building a foundation of financial literacy. You can start by making two lists together:

  • Needs: School supplies, clothes for winter, food
  • Wants: New toys, extra snacks, gadgets

Help your child understand that needs are essential for daily life, while wants are things they would like to have but are not necessary. This is where budgeting comes in. You can give your child an allowance based on the chores they’ve completed, and then guide them in making choices about how to spend that money.

Here’s an idea: Take them to a local market or browse an online store. Ask them to guess how much an item costs and then show them the actual price. This will give them a real-world sense of how money is spent and the importance of budgeting wisely.

Saving for Something Special: The Power of Patience

While your child might be eager to spend their earnings on small things like candies or toys, it’s important to introduce the concept of saving. Explain to them that saving means putting aside some of their earnings to afford something bigger or more valuable later on.

For example, if your child wants a new toy that costs ₹500, help them calculate how many chores they need to complete to save that much money. They might earn ₹50 from cleaning their room, so after 10 chores, they’ll have enough to buy the toy.

This exercise teaches your child two valuable lessons:

  1. Patience: Waiting and working toward a goal
  2. Planning: Making smart decisions about money instead of spending it impulsively

A great way to visualize their progress is to create a chart where they can color in boxes each time they save ₹50, getting closer to their goal of ₹500. Watching their savings grow will motivate them and reinforce the value of working toward a reward.

Teaching Smart Spending: Comparison Shopping

Another critical skill is teaching your child to compare prices. This can be a fun and educational experience. Let’s say your child wants to buy a cricket bat. You can compare prices from two different stores—perhaps one offers the bat for ₹800 and another for ₹750. Show your child how much they can save by choosing the cheaper option.

You can take this further by asking your child to calculate how much they saved, and then show them how they can use the saved amount to buy something else. This teaches them the value of making informed decisions and managing their money wisely.

Final Thoughts: Building Lifelong Skills

As parents of children with special needs, it’s important to approach financial literacy with patience, creativity, and encouragement. Teaching your child the value of money is not just about math or currency; it’s about empowering them to make confident, informed choices as they grow.

These lessons will carry into adulthood, giving them a sense of independence and understanding that they can apply to all areas of life. Helping your child develop good financial habits early on is one of the most empowering gifts you can give them.

Remember, these lessons are not just about rupees and coins; they are about building a strong foundation for their future success and independence.

Together, we can help children thrive.

Warm regards,

Dr. Rajeshwari Yadav
Helping children grow into healthy, happy, and independent individuals