Mumma, Papa… Why Isn’t He Talking Yet?

If you’re reading this, chances are… you’re concerned about your child.

Maybe your toddler isn’t talking like other children their age.
Maybe they avoid eye contact, don’t respond when you call their name, or spend hours lining up toys instead of playing pretend.
Maybe you’ve heard someone say, “It’s just a phase,” but your gut says otherwise.

As a parent, your instinct is powerful. And you’re right to listen to it.

At Caitanya, I’ve met countless mothers and fathers who noticed something early on — even if they couldn’t quite put it into words. What matters is: you noticed. That’s the beginning of everything.

So, what could these early signs mean?
Could it be a temporary delay — or is it pointing to something deeper?

Let’s understand one of the possibilities that many parents today are navigating with strength, awareness, and love — Autism Spectrum Disorder.

What Is Autism?

Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD) is a neurodevelopmental condition, which means it affects how a child’s brain grows and understands the world.

It’s not a disease, not something “caught,” and certainly not the parent’s fault.
It’s a difference in brain wiring — in how your child learns, plays, feels, and interacts.
And it can influence more than just speech or behavior. Many children with autism may also experience differences in:

• Communication – speaking, using gestures, or understanding others
• Social interaction – forming relationships or playing with peers
• Sensory processing – how they respond to sounds, touch, smells, light
• Emotional regulation – managing excitement, frustration, or routine changes
• Physical health – sleep disturbances, digestive issues, food intolerances
  

Importantly, autism exists on a spectrum — every child presents differently.

 Early Signs Parents Should Watch For

You, as a parent, are often the first to observe something “different.” These signs can appear as early as infancy, or may become noticeable by 18–24 months.

 Baby and Toddler Signs

• Doesn’t respond to name being called
• Avoids eye contact
• Doesn’t smile back or react to peekaboo
• Rarely gestures (waving, pointing, showing objects)
• Doesn’t babble, coo, or attempt early speech sounds
• Doesn’t reach out to be picked up
  
  

 Social and Play Behaviors

• Prefers to play alone; avoids peers
• Doesn’t imitate actions (clapping, playing house, etc.)
• Lines up toys or spins objects
• Doesn’t show shared enjoyment (like pointing to something exciting)
• May seem unaware of others’ emotions or expressions
  
  

 Sensory & Physical Cues

• Overreacts to common sounds (pressure cooker, mixer)
• Sensitive to clothes tags, water temperature, or bright lights
• Repeats unusual behaviors like spinning, hand-flapping, or toe-walking
• May chew on non-food items or repeat specific sounds
• Either extremely active or unusually quiet

 Let’s Clear Some Myths

In Indian households, we often hear:

• “Boys talk late, don’t worry.”
• “He’s just naughty, not autistic.”
• “She doesn’t speak because no one else talks to her at home.”

While these comments come from a good place, they can delay timely support.

Autism isn’t caused by parenting style, screen time, or vaccines.
It’s a biological-neurological condition — not a character flaw or a bad habit.

The earlier we identify it, the better the outcome.

 Why Early Intervention Matters

The first few years of life are when the brain is most adaptable — this is called neuroplasticity. During this time, the right support can help your child:

• Build social understanding
• Develop communication skills (verbal or non-verbal)
• Learn daily routines and self-care
• Reduce overwhelming behaviors
• Strengthen emotional connection and bonding
  
  

We’ve seen beautiful transformations:
Children who once had no words begin to speak in full sentences.
Children who couldn’t bear touch now enjoy hugs and closeness.
Families once lost in confusion now feel hopeful, connected, and empowered.

 What’s Next?

If you’ve noticed any of the signs above, don’t panic.
But don’t wait either.

Every child develops differently — yes — but certain milestones are important signals. If your child seems to be missing multiple early milestones, it’s time to evaluate further.

A proper diagnosis doesn’t put a label on your child. It opens the door to support, therapy, and real change.

Our Approach at Caitanya Healing by Homeopathy

At Caitanya, we offer a specialized, system-based approach to support children with autism.

We combine:

• Classical homeopathic treatment tailored to your child’s constitution
• Evidence-based therapies to enhance sensory processing and focus
• Parental coaching for home routines and behavior strategies
• Nutritional guidance to support gut-brain health
• And most importantly, compassionate, personalized care
  

Concerned About Autism? Let’s Evaluate, Not Assume.

If you’re unsure whether your child is showing signs of autism or simply facing a temporary delay, early assessment is key.

 Book a free one-on-one consultation with Dr. Rajeshwari:
👉 https://calendly.com/doctorsconsultation/free-one-to-one-consulting-dr-rajeshwari

We offer evidence-based guidance, developmental screening, and a clear path forward — without fear, stigma, or guesswork.

Early action isn’t about labeling — it’s about timely support and better outcomes.
Let’s take that step, together.